Wednesday, April 11, 2018

Home Improvement Series – Part 1 Building Better Habits


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Proverbs 9:1 Wisdom has built her house, She has hewn out her seven pillars.

The next few weeks we are going to work on building a pleasant and productive life. We are God’s home in the earth and it is important that we pay some attention to making a few self-improvements. Things left to themselves don’t get better, they get worse. This evening we will begin our Home Improvement Series by searching the Word of God to find strong supporting scriptures that will help us Build Better Habits.

A habit is something we tend to do without thinking – because we have done it so many times before. Habits are formed by repetitive actions. Many habits, especially the bad ones, were unintentionally created. Our habits are reflected in our routine and while they are little more than unconscious reactions to us, they can become irritations and even be offensive to others, especially when others are following our example.

In 1982 a preacher named Jim Boswell challenged me to build better habits in my life on purpose. He taught me that habits are one of the most underutilized and yet, one of the most powerful personal assets we can possess. He told me that I had both the opportunity and the ability to shape my life in any way I wished by making and maintaining good, godly habits. I took his challenge and began forming habits on purpose.

He was right. It took me about six weeks of purpose-filled attention to break one habit and form another in its place. Then I found that maintaining the desired new habit for only six months made it my habit. After almost 40 years many of those habits which I first formed on purpose continue to serve me and benefit others. Our habits make us either more pleasing or less pleasing to God and others.

So, without further ado, let’s begin our search of God’s Word to find strong supporting scriptures upon which we can Build Better Habits.   

1.  The Habit of Listening to Others

James 1:19  So then, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath.

2.  The Habit of Watching What We Say

Titus 3:2  Speak evil of no one, be peaceable, gentle, showing all humility to all men.

3.  The Habit of Humility

Matthew 23:12  “And whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.”

1 Peter 5
5  Likewise you younger people, submit yourselves to your elders. Yes, all of you be submissive to one another, and be clothed with humility, for “God resists the proud, But gives grace to the humble.”
6  Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time,
7  casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you.

4.  The Habit of Giving

Proverbs 19:17  He who has pity on the poor lends to the LORD, And He will pay back what he has given.

Luke 6:38  “Give, and it will be given to you: good measure, pressed down, shaken together, and running over will be put into your bosom. For with the same measure that you use, it will be measured back to you.”

5.  The Habit of Prayer

John 14:14  “If you ask anything in My name, I will do it.”

Genesis 19:27  And Abraham went early in the morning to the place where he had stood before the LORD.

Mark 1:35  Now in the morning, having risen a long while before daylight, He went out and departed to a solitary place; and there He prayed.

6.  The Habit of Attending Church

Luke 4:16  So He came to Nazareth, where He had been brought up. And as His custom was, He went into the synagogue on the Sabbath day, and stood up to read.

Hebrews 10:25  Do not forsake the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching.

7.  The Habit of Being A Witness

Proverbs 11:30  The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life, And he who wins souls is wise.

Matthew 5:16  “Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven.”

It takes six weeks to break a habit and begin a new one in its place. Then, if purposefully continued for six months, the new habit will become your habit and you will be prompted by the nature of your life to follow that established routine. However, if you neglect a good habit for several weeks, you will develop and be left with a new habit.

Build Better Habits by paying closer attention to what you say, how you listen, what you give, how you react, what you pray about, how often you attend Church and your daily witness for Christ.

If one of these areas speaks to your heart, decide right now and take action to find seven pillars of truth from God’s Word that you can hold on to and build a better home for Christ in your life.

You will have to be active and participate in the process of creating good, godly habits. Make a commitment to identify those habits that you need to change and then pray and ask God to remind you each time that opportunity presents itself and make the conscious effort to replace it with a good, godly habit. Need some suggestions on habits that might to change? Here are some considerations …

Facebook – Family – Twitter– Bible – Snapchat – Prayer – Texts – TV???