Sunday, August 6, 2023

Coming Out


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Coming out can be an anxious time in a person’s life. Fear of what others may think … the uncertainty ofhow people knowing will affect the way they treat me; will I lose friends; will the new friends I make really accept me or will I be left out, without a support group and people I can depend on? Questions, questions, and more questions. 

 

And yet, some people don’t even seem worried about coming out. They have a bigger than life personality and aren’t visibly bothered by what others think about them. They make friends everywhere they go, and they get excited about the thought of making a big splash. They just can’t wait to tell everyone.

 

This was the case with a very important man who lived in Jericho in Jesus’ day. This man, you know him as Zacchaeus, was involved and entrenched in a small but powerful group of community outcasts called Publicans. According to Jesus, these publicans were sinners and Zacchaeus was what the scriptures describes as “a notorious sinner.”

 

Zacchaeus was well known for being a liar, a cheat, and a thief. And, he had a license from the Roman government to do so. Businessmen, widows, families, orphans, fishermen, both the young and the old, the rich and the poor … publican tax collectors robbed and extorted them all. People in town tolerated Zacchaeusand they feared him, but they didn’t like him or respect him. We find no one in the city who spoke up in hopes Zacchaeus would change. They only knew him for what he had done, not for what he could do if he got his heart right with God.

 

I suppose the more public a person lives their life, the more public the coming out should be. At any rate the account of Zacchaeus is a well-known event that changed a lot of lives that day in Jericho and the surrounding communities. Let’s read the story from the 19th chapter of the Gospel of Luke and refresh our recollection about what happened that day.

 

Luke 19 NKJV

1 ¶  Then Jesus entered and passed through Jericho.

2  Now behold, there was a man named Zacchaeus who was a chief tax collector, and he was rich.

3  And he sought to see who Jesus was, but could not because of the crowd, for he was of short stature.

4  So he ran ahead and climbed up into a sycamore tree to see Him, for He was going to pass that way.

5  And when Jesus came to the place, He looked up and saw him, and said to him, “Zacchaeus, make haste and come down, for today I must stay at your house.”

6  So he made haste and came down, and received Him joyfully.

7  But when they saw it, they all complained, saying, “He has gone to be a guest with a man who is a sinner.”


Now here is what we know:

• A large crowd was following Jesus as He walked through the streets of Jericho on His way from the Galilee to Jerusalem where Jesus knew He was going to be crucified as a sacrifice to save sinners.
• Zacchaeus was a sinner.
• Jesus wanted to see Zacchaeus saved.
• Zacchaeus was oblivious as to what was about to happen.
• Jesus invited Himself to go to Zacchaeus’ house that day
• Zacchaeus joyfully accepted the invitation but no one else liked it.

 

Now here is what we don’t know:

• What happened at lunch that day?
• Being unprepared, the household of Zacchaeus, who was a rich man, probably got real busy trying to be hospitable for this large group of disciples – the inner circle was at least 50 people heading to the Passover in Jerusalem and they all needed a place to eat and lodge.
Most likely the servants of Zacchaeus filledthe pitchers with fresh water and providedbowls to wash everyone’s hands and feet and refresh them from their long dusty walk.
Setting out drinks and appetizers; wine and cheese, bread and fruit and dates from that region. 
Perhaps goats or sheep were killed, rice and bread were cooked with local spices.
Followed by sweet treats … a rich man’s meal no doubt … fit for a King. Then maybe lodging was readily prepared.
• But we have no knowledge of what the conversation was like. 
• However, we do see the results! 
• No doubt the front-page headlines of the Jericho Gazette read something like this: Notorious Sinner Comes Out 

 

Out of what?

• Out of his sinful, selfish way of life. 
• Caring only for himself and not about others.
• Living a lifestyle contrary to the Word, the Will, and the Way of God.
• Zacchaeus came out as a witness of the love of Jesus Christ and the power of that love to changesomeone forever.

 

8  Then Zacchaeus stood and said to the Lord, “Look, Lord, I give half of my goods to the poor; and if I have taken anything from anyone by false accusation, I restore fourfold.”

9  And Jesus said to him, “Today salvation has come to this house, because he also is a son of Abraham;

10  “for the Son of Man has come to seek and to save that which was lost.”

 

25 years later, the Apostle Paul wrote his second letter to the Church in Corinth and encouraged them to come out like Zacchaeus did. Corinth was a modern sinful city filled with prostitutes and vices of all sorts and kinds. People belonged to guilds and clubs and groups that provided them with a sense of personal identity, physical safety, and financial security. Status was everything.

 

When a person got saved, it was very easy just keep doing the same thing, running with the same crowd, laughing at the same jokes, and looking the other way to avoid conflict with questionable practices. So much of the sin in Corinth was public sin. Getting saved was the easy part … changing your sinful ways was not. Sin was everywhere. Paul taught that:

 

Sinners should be led to Christ. Christians should not be led to sin.

 

Paul wrote a very simple set of instructions to those in the Church.

 

2 Corinthians 6 NKJV

14  Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness?

• The Holy Spirit is not saying – don’t be around sinners. 
• The Holy Spirit is saying – don’t continue to promote or support sinful practices as though you were still living in agreement with sin.

 

15  And what accord has Christ with Belial? Or what part has a believer with an unbeliever?

16  And what agreement has the temple of God with idols? For you are the temple of the living God. As God has said: “I will dwell in them And walk among them. I will be their God, And they shall be My people.”

 

• Many relegate this passage to marriage and use it to say a Christian should not marry a person who is not a Christian. 
• Although this is a reasonable take-away from Paul’s admonition, the feeling is sometimes translated as though God won’t like you or help you if you do. Nothing could be farther from the truth.
• Every admonition from the scriptures is there to help direct and protect us. God is trying to keep His children from having problems.
• I don’t suggest you speed or cheat or lie or do anything outside of God’s best for your life. However I do believe God does not leave us or forsake us just because we make a bad decision or willfully enter into troubled times for ourselves. 
• I believe God is with us more in our moments of straying from His will. Not that He approves or that He doesn’t care … in fact He cares even more.
• Where sin does abound, the grace of God abounds more. (Rom 5:20)
• God is there to help fix the problems He never caused and even the problems He warned us would ensue if we continued down sinful streams. 
• This is a love unknown by man until God gave us His heart by giving us His Son.
• Nonetheless we are yet admonished to not willfully join in concert or agreement with packs of notorious sinners or men of Belial.

 

17  Therefore “Come out from among them And be separate, says the Lord. Do not touch what is unclean, And I will receive you.”

 

Come out! 

 

Some Born Again Believers in Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior should really consider coming out. And stop touching, or doing some things …

 

If you have accepted the truth that Jesus of Nazareth is the Son of God, not just another good teacher or promised prophet, but the only begotten Son of God, the Word of God made Flesh, God incarnate, and if you have submitted and committed your life to Him, it is time to come out!

 

If you have been born again, here are some simple ways to begin living the change.

1. Gracefully excuse yourself from coarse conversation or ugly jokes whenever possible.
If asked why, simply say it makes you feel uncomfortable. You don’t need to be critical of others.
Zacchaeus didn’t challenge the other tax collectors, but I bet he did inspire them.
This is about you, not about others. You’re the one coming out … it’s for your peace of mind and strength of spirit. It will be a witness for them, but it’s not about them
You are the Zacchaeus in this picture, not the Jesus today
You have been changed, and you are coming out from the old ways.
It’s like getting out of the swimming pool because you have had enough. Others might stay in but you are coming out.
2. Pray and thank God in public places, without making a scene.
a. This is one of the best examples we can be to our community when we eat out or even when we invite people to our homes.
b. It is simple but it says I believe in and I’m not ashamed of Jesus.
c. Don’t act pious or be religious or self-righteous … simply pray and acknowledge Jesus in the public square.
3. Psalms 141:3 Set a guard, O LORD, over my mouth; Keep watch over the door of my lips.
a. What you say to others, about others, and around others tells them who you are. Start with the simple things … Come out!