Saturday, July 13, 2024

Faith Supplements Part VII: Love

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We are continuing our series called Faith Supplements. We are going through the 7 spiritual ingredients listed out in 2 Peter 1 that help form a godly life. Whether it be vitamins, minerals, herbs, etc, supplements are so important. They help maintain and even increase our overall nutrition in areas we might be lacking. Supplements help provide a boost to our overall health.

Similarly, our spiritual health is just as important. Like vitamins, there are spiritual supplements that we can take everyday to help boost our faith, spiritual walk. In part one, we discussed the responsibility we have to maintain our relationship with God.

-      God has given us everything we need in order to build a godly life

-      Godly Life = to be pleased with God and to be pleasing to God

-      God gives us the desire and the ability to do what pleases Him

-      Everything we need to build a godly life is found in His Word

-      They are His great and precious promises given to us

-      By which we have access to the divine nature

-      And help us escape corruption from our evil desires

Virtue

-      Virtue = The courage to do the right thing in every situation

-      Culture and society do not determine the “right thing.”

-      The right thing is that which God has commanded in His Word

-      Only God establishes truth

-      Virtue is doing the right thing, according to His Word, even when nobody else is

-      We all need convictions. Without convictions, we can be talked into doing anything.

-      We need godly convictions- they give us the courage to do what is right in all situations. 

Knowledge

-      On top of virtue, the Bible encourages us to add knowledge

-      Knowledge = Truth acquired from God’s Word

-      Knowing what is right in God’s eyes

-      The spiritual battle we are in is all about truth; God wants to get truth into the hands of everyone. The devil wants to deceive as many people from the truth as possible.

-      When we know the truth, it sets us free. Therefore, we need knowledge of the truth.

-      Knowledge of the truth informs us of what truly matters

Self-Control

-      On top of Knowledge, we are encouraged to add self-control

-      Self-Control = The ability to do the right thing in the moment of temptation

-      Mastery over desires; dominion within

-      There is a battle for self-control in our life

-      The devil is working overtime to gain control over your life. He wants to have dominion.

-      He is using the things of this world to entice the desires of your flesh to giving in to temptation. When we do that, we concede control in that area of our life over to the devil.

-      He wants to remove control, while God wants to produce self-control in our life. That only happens when we choose to trust Him with the reigns of our life.

-      Let us live by the spirit, think before we act, ask the Holy Spirit to helps us, and then choose to do the right thing.

Perseverance

-      On top of self-control, we are to add perseverance

-      Perseverance = to remain under discipline

-      We are called to persevere through hardship: God is with us through difficulty

-      We are called to persevere with people: be patient with others

-      We are called to persevere in the faith: do not give up; fight the good fight of faith

Godliness

-      Godliness = Conforming to the character of God in every area of our life

-      We have an expectation to grow in godliness

-      However, God doesn’t want us just to act godly; He doesn’t want us to simply have an appearance of godliness.

-      His desire is that we would become godly through the transformative power of the Holy Spirit

-      We must train ourselves in godliness by putting His Word to practice

Brotherly Love

-      Brotherly Kindness = Loving fellow believers like family

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That brings us to the seventh and final supplement listed in 2 Peter chapter 1… love.

2 Peter 1:5-7

“5 But also for this very reason, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue, to virtue knowledge, 6 to knowledge self-control, to self-control perseverance, to perseverance godliness, 7 to godliness brotherly kindness, and to brotherly kindness love.”

We are to add to our faith:

-    Virtue

-    Knowledge

-    Self Control

-    Perseverance

-    Godliness

-    Brotherly Kindness

-    Love

Peter says that by having these qualities we will be fruitful and effective for Jesus! He also says that if we practice these qualities then we will never fail. All of these qualities are very important!

So lets get to the last spiritual ingredient listed, love!

Love is a word that is thrown around a lot in our culture. So much so, that it has almost lost its meaning and value in our society. However, love does have value. In fact, it might be the greatest quality available to add to our life.

Therefore, it is important to know what love is! So, what exactly is love?

True love is more than a feeling:

    Not just some warm fuzzy

    Not just a chemical of the brain

    A feeling comes and goes

    True love does not come and go

    Thank God that His love for us is not dependent on how He feels

True love is not about getting:

    Not about getting what I want

    Not about what makes me happy

    Not about my own pleasure

So what is love?

According to Webster’s dictionary, love is the unselfish, loyal, and benevolent concern for the good of another. That concept of love is borrowed from the Bible.

Love = (Agape) = The decision to bring about God’s best for someone else

This definition comes from John 3:16

John 3:16 - “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.”

1.     Love focuses on others
For God so loved the world…”
It is not just about getting what I want. It is about blessing other people. Love motivates us to help others. God so loved the world…not so that He would be blessed. God already has all that He needs. He loved us so that “we” would be blessed.

Romans 5:8
“God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”

Love has not ulterior motive. Love has no hidden agenda. Love. simply cares about others. When God
s love is operating in us, we will focus on blessing others.

2.     Love is a decision
For God so loved the world, that he gave…”

God decided that He was going to give. Love motivates us to action. It encourages us to choose to do something about a said situation. Love is not just a feeling. Feelings over time can change. Therefore, our love cannot be tied to just how we feel.

“Love is not a feeling. It is a willing.” - A.W. Tozer

When Jesus tells us to love our neighbor as ourselves, He did not mean to “feel” love for them. Instead, we are to choose to love them; we are to choose to show grace. There are times when we may not feel like loving other people. However, we just have to be willing. If we are willing to love like Jesus loved us, His sufficient grace will enable us to want God’s best for people.

3.     Love is a sacrifice (it costs you something)
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son..”

Love will cost you something. It cost God His only son. Because He loved us, He gave up His Son as a sacrifice in our place. It was love that motivated the Father to give. Loving others will cost you something.


2 Corinthians 5:21
"Him who knew no sin he made to be sin on our behalf; that we might become the righteousness of God in him.”

4.     Love desires to see God’s best
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.”

Love desires God’s best for others. God’s best are His blessings, here in this life and the life to come.

Love According to 1 Corinthians 13

1 Corinthians 13

4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Let us love people through the new nature according to 1 Corinthians 13.

    Be patient with people: Love people in spite of their faults. Refuse to take offense. Do not demand perfection out of people. God is patient with you.

    Be kind: Intentionally love people with your words. Do not tear people down but lift them up. Be kind to people, even those who are not kind to you. In a world full of hurt, let us show kindness to others. You never know what your random act of kindness can mean to someone else.

    Do not be envious: Do not compete with people! Be content with what God has already given you. Envy causes us to treat people wrongfully. Let us not allow envy to boil up in our heart.

Proverbs 14:30 - “A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones.”

    Do not boast: Let us not brag to make people feel bad for what they do not have. Let’s not make everything about ourself. Love does not focus on ourselves but on others.

    Do not be proud: Let us not puff ourselves up in our own hearts to the point where we cannot love others. Pride produces a judgmental spirit. Love produces grace.

    Do not dishonor others: Don’t be rude to people. Treat people with honor and respect. Treat others with grace.

    Do not seek after your own desires: Don’t put yourself before others for your own interests. Let us not use people to get what we want. That is not love, that is from the devil. Instead, look out for the interests of others.

    Do not be easily angered: Do not allow yourself to be easily irritated or provoked. We all have our buttons. Let us not push other people’s buttons and let us not wear our buttons like a chain. Let us relax and overlook offenses. People should not have to walk on eggshells around us.

    Do not hold grudges: Do not harbor resentment in your heart. Let us not credit the offense of others to their account. Instead, work hard to forgive and forget. This is one of the most godliest things we can do for someone else.

    Do not harbor evil: Do not find enjoyment in the mistreatment of others, even if it is your enemy. Let us catch ourselves when our heart laughs at the evil mistreatment of another.

    Rejoice with the truth: The opposite, celebrate when truth wins. We should speak the truth, but in love. Let us uphold the truth of God’s Word, with grace. We do not need to be judgmental. We can do so with a loving and caring heart.

    Protect people: Let us cover people, not expose their failures. That includes family, friends, and enemies.

    Believe in people: Believe the best about people. Do not allow someone’s opinion to color your perspective of someone else. Choose to believe in people, invest in people, and give people a chance.

    Hope for the best in people: Choose to be optimistic. Choose to believe for God’s best for someone else’s future.

    Persevere with people: Don’t ever stop loving people. Choose to endure with people in spite of their shortcomings. Choose to keep loving people like God does for you.

Takeaways:

1.     Decide to love people

2.     Keep Loving people

3.     Never stop loving people