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- · Fill your mind with the good Word of God! (Proverbs 4:23)
- · Think on the best you can imagine God can do. (Philippians 4:8)
- · Speak that which is good. (Ephesians 4:29)
- · Renew your mind and it will renew your life! (Romans 12:1-2)
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Convictions. They’re something we never really talk about. But it is something we all have in some way or another. And while we do have them, how often do we actually think about that our convictions are? The question is, what are the convictions that we are holding on to?
CONVICTIONS | PREFERENCES |
|---|---|
Do not change | Do change |
Rooted in God’s Word | Shaped by culture, upbringing, and personality |
Faith based | Opinion based |
Non-negotiable | Situational |
You believe no matter the situation you face | You believe now but can be convinced there is something better. |
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This
morning we are continuing our Life Lessons from the Bible, picking up where we
left off in the life of an Old Testament prophet named Balaam. In Part 1 we
established a few things about this prophet from the account in the book of
Numbers chapter 22. Namely:
·
Balaam loved money.
·
Just because God tolerates something does not mean He
appreciates it.
· If you cannot say no to yourself and to others, you will fail in life.
The story of Balaam intrigues me. For those just joining the story, allow me to give the quick overview of Balaam’s situation.
Balaam was a prophet of Jehovah living in what is now Syria during the Exodus of the Children of Israel with Moses. The Israelites were so numerous that they filled the land with their tents as they moved through Midian on the eastern side of the Dead Sea and on up the Jordan River Valley across from Jericho.
The King of Midian, named Balak, was afraid of the Israelites but knew he could not defeat them in a direct attack. He had heard about their God and how He protected them against their enemies. So King Balak hatched a plan. He decided to hire a prophet of the God of Israel and pay that prophet to pronounce a curse on the Israelites.
King Balak offered the prophet Balaam a lot of money to curse Israel. Balaam inquired of God and God told Balaam to not go. When Balak the king heard this, he immediately offered Balaam a lot more money, power, and position. Balaam loved money so he went back to try and convince God to let him do it.
Finally God told Balaam, go ahead … but do not say anything I don’t tell you to say. So Balaam saddled his trusted donkey and went.
He wasn’t far down the road before an Angel of the Lord stood in the way with his sword drawn to kill Balaam. Balaam didn’t see the angel, but his donkey did. Just before the angel struck, the donkey veered off the trail and into a field, saving Balaam’s life. Balaam got mad at the donkey and beat her until she got back up on the road.
This happened two more times until God opened the mouth of the donkey to speak to Balaam and then God opened Balaam’s eyes to see the angel.
This whole account begs the question: If God was against Balaam going to Midian, why did He tell him to go head?
Ezekiel 14 tells us that if a person sets up an idol in his own heart and then inquires of God concerning a matter while worshipping that idol, God will allow the idol to answer them. Even a prophet will be deceived by the idol they set up to worship. The voice of the Lord will sound like the voice of their idol. God will confirm their delusion. The Psalmists said:
Psalm 81:12 So I gave them over to their own stubborn heart, to walk in their own counsels.
Idolatry is sin. Balaam worshipped money. Money was his god. Money told Balaam what to think, feel, and do. Money, in and of itself, is nothing, until you idolize it. Money is not evil … it’s the love of money … and …
It doesn’t have to be money to be an idol. Anything, even another person, can become an idol.
Sin
begins so small. But > Sin will:
·
Take you farther than you wanted to go.
·
Keep you longer than you expected to stay.
· Cost you more than you were willing to pay.
Sin begins as a mistake in judgment or an impulse driven act or a single bad decision. This is no doubt what happened to Balaam. Sin began small, like a seed, just an error, and it grew. This is:
The Progression of Sin
1. The Error of Balaam
Jude 1:11 Woe to them! For they have gone in the way of Cain,
have run greedily in the error of Balaam for profit, and perished in the
rebellion of Korah.
·
An
Error is a mistake, a sin, but often a single bad decision.
· Repent of bad decisions before they become a habit or a way.
2. The Way of Balaam
2 Peter 2:15 They have forsaken the right way and gone astray,
following the way of Balaam the son of Beor, who loved the wages of
unrighteousness.
·
An
error left unchecked, unchallenged and unchanged becomes a way of life.
· That’s just the way I am … so sad but so true.
3. The Doctrine of Balaam
Revelation 2:14 But I have a few things against you, because you
have there those who hold the doctrine of Balaam, who taught Balak to put a
stumbling block before the children of Israel, to eat things sacrificed to
idols, and to commit sexual immorality.
·
The
word doctrine means teaching.
·
Balaam
knew he could not curse the Israelites but he could teach king Balak how to
cast a stumbling block before the children of Israel so that they would, in
essence, curse themselves.
·
He
told Balak to move Midianite prostitutes in tents close to the camp of Israel
and entice them to consort, intermingle, and intermarry. Then further tempt
them to set up idols to worship and thereby anger God.
· It worked …
Numbers 31:16 These caused the children of Israel, through the counsel of Balaam to commit trespass against the Lord … and there was a plague among the congregation of the Lord.
Joshua 13:22 – The Children of Israel, under the leadership of Joshua, killed Balaam with the sword once they entered the Promise Land.
Conclusion: How Do I Defeat The Curse of Balaam In My Life?
1. Confess and forsake your sin.
Proverbs 28:13 He who covers his sins will not prosper, But whoever confesses and forsakes them will have mercy.
2. Flee sin … Run Away!
1 Corinthians 6:18 Flee sexual immorality …
3. Make no provision for sin …
Romans 13:14 But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision
for the flesh, to fulfill its lusts.
Any body here talk to themselves? I definitely talk to myself, maybe a little too much. But talking to yourself is normal, and it is a good thing. With that said, here is my question to you:
What do you say to yourself, when you talk to yourself? I’m not referring to on-going narration you say to yourself as you get ready to leave the house or when you forget how you got to a destination. I am also not referring to the constant reminders you give yourself or work toward completing your tasks.
What I’m referring to is the on-going self-talk that you repeatedly say to yourself over and over again in your mind. What do you say when you talk to yourself? If you are like most people, there are times when you get stuck in a negative loop. You find yourself thinking about things that are not helpful and at times can be harmful.
Some of those thoughts can sound
like this:
•
I always mess
things up
•
I never get
things right
•
This is a
disaster
•
They probably
think I am stupid
•
Or, I am so
stupid
•
I am a failure
•
I am just so bad
with money
•
Why can’t I just
be like them?
•
This is never
going to change
• God must be disappointed in me
What you say to yourself matters… What you say to the people around you matters. What you say to your children matters. What you say to God matters.
But what you say to yourself may matter more than what you say to others.
Proverbs 23:7 — “For as a man thinks in his heart, so is he.”
We must be careful how we think, because how we think shapes who we become. That’s powerful! What you think about yourself and how you talk to yourself in your thoughts have the power to shape who you are becoming.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in
psychology explains it like this:
•
Your thoughts
impact (help to form) what you believe
•
Your beliefs
impact what you feel
• Your feelings often impact what you do
In other words, our lives move in the direction of our strongest and deepest thoughts. The question is, what are you thinking about the most? What are you saying to yourself the most? Even better, what are you allowing your “self” to say to yourself?
Your thoughts have extraordinary power.
Through Christ, you have extraordinary power over your thoughts.
You are not a victim of your thoughts. Through the power of God you can choose what you think about and what you say to yourself. However, it is a matter of CHOICE.
Romans 8:6
“The mind governed by the flesh is death, but the mind governed by the Spirit is life and peace.”
If we find ourselves struggling with negative and destructive thoughts, could it be that out mind is set on the things of this world rather than the things of God? It says that when we set our mind on the things of God that it leads to life and peace.
Here is the truth:
Toxic thinking not only impacts you, but also those around you.
Psalms 4:23 — “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”
Whatever is in your inner world
eventually becomes a stream to the outer world. In other words, if toxic
thinking is flowing inside of us, it will show up in our:
•
Tone (how we
speak to people)
•
Attitude (how we
react to people)
• Patience (how we treat people)
We have to break out of this cycle. Why? Because how we speak to ourself matters! It impacts not just ourselves, but the people around us. So, when we find ourselves constantly surrounded by negativity, toxic thinking, and negative thoughts patterns, what should we do?
Here are four things we can do remedy negative thinking:
1.
Guard
what you allow in your mind
Psalms 4:23 — “Above
all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”
•
Don’t let
negativity run unchecked in your life
•
We don’t have to
sit listen to our self speak negatively
•
Not every thought
is worth thinking about
•
You can’t always
control every thought that enters your mind, but you can control what stays.
2.
Replace
negative thoughts with truth
2 Corinthians 10:5 —
“We take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.”
•
We guard what we
allow in our mind, and then we replace those thoughts that do make it through.
•
Your thoughts are
not in charge, Christ is
•
You don’t have to
sit and listen to your self speak negatively to ourself
•
You can interrupt
those negative thought patterns and replace them with the truth
•
When a thought
comes your way,
1) — Don’t ignore it
2) — Ask yourself, is this true? (does it line up with scripture)
3) — What does God’s Word say?
4) — Declare God’s truth over yourself
•
Romans
12:2 — “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the
renewing of your mind.”
3.
Fix
your mind on God
•
The mind that is
set on the flesh is death, but the mind that is set on the Spirit is life and
peace!
•
If we want more
life giving thoughts, peaceful thoughts, encouraging thoughts, joyful thoughts,
loving thoughts, then we have to set our mind on the things of God.
Colossians 3:2 — “Set
your minds on things above, not on earthly things.”
•
To “set your
mind” means to intentionally place it somewhere. It is a choice you are making.
You must choose that you are going to think about the things of God.
•
You have to avoid
setting your mind on gossip, constant bad news, what people think about you,
your past failures and mistakes.
•
Your thoughts are
incredibly powerful!
•
However, through
Christ you have incredible power over your thoughts
•
Through the power
of God, you can choose to set your mind on God
‣
Remind yourself
who God is
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Remind yourself
of His promises
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Remind yourself
of where your hope comes from
•
Isaiah
26:3 — “You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because
they trust in You.”
4.
Encourage
yourself in the Lord
• When you find yourself in a moment when you are
surrounded by negativity, do what David did and encourage yourself in the Lord.
Psalm 42:5 — “Why, my
soul, are you downcast? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I
will yet praise Him…”
• Notice what David did:
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He acknowledged
his discouragement
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He did not allow
it to consume him
‣
He was speaking
the truth to himself
• Encouraging yourself means reminding yourself:
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God is good
‣
God is faithful
‣
God is with you
‣
God is at work
‣
The season you
are in is not the end
•
1
Samuel 30:6 — “David found strength in the Lord his God."
• Encourage yourself in the Lord!
• Remind yourself that you can
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Trust in the Lord
‣
You are not alone
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Your hope is in
the Lord